The Kevin Healey Story
Feb 17, 2007 by
Jon Jarc
Kevin Healey, an 18 year old freshman at the University of Notre Dame and a 2007 graduate of St. Ignatius High School in Cleveland , Ohio , has never been content to stand on the sidelines. He began his battle against a form of osteosarcoma in his right tibia, discovered in December of 2006. He underwent months of chemo and a total knee/tibia replacement and tumor removal surgery last May. The tumor pathology revealed a unique cancer unknown internationally. The doctors took their best guess as to how to treat this rare cancer and Kevin underwent months of his former and additional chemo treatments. Unfortunately, Kevin's body was resistant to chemo, and a January 2008 lung scan/surgery revealed that cancer has metastasized to his lungs. The doctors removed the lesion. They will scan him again at the end of February. Kevin returned to ND ten days after the surgery.
During all of this, Kevin was a Notre Dame early admission student who turned down admission to Harvard. Despite missing about 1/3 of his first semester at ND due to chemo, Kevin made the Dean's List. He is the son of Tom Healey, ND '81, a theology teacher at St. Ignatius High School , and Ann, a Kindergarten teacher at St. Bernadette School . Kevin's sister, Mary Kate, is a 7th grader at St. Angela Merici School.
Kevin’s most likely next course of treatment will include experimental drugs which are very costly and one is not covered by insurance ($15,000/month). And at some point soon, his insurance will potentially cap out. And, God willing, there will come a time when Kevin needs expensive health insurance when he is in graduate/law school and beyond.
The Healey family is profoundly grateful for your support.
Kevin's growing sense of Jesus active in his life, already present before his illness, is the center of his life. Aware that God has a special plan for him, he is eager to discern how to best serve God in his life as he faces the battle of his cancer.
Throughout his four years at St. Ignatius, Kevin was active in a number of extracurricular activities including performing in the marching and concert band. His love of playing liturgical music and singing in the chorus extended his musical talents. In Magnificat's production of "Fiddler on the Roof" this fall, Kevin played the part of the Rabbi. “Never sitting on the sidelines” also drew him into being a co-editor-in-chief of the yearbook, a co-president of Junior Council on World Affairs and a member of the Student Senate.
As a "Man for Others" he reached out to help others through service projects such as the Labre Ministry to the homeless and the St. Joseph of Arimathea Society where he offered himself as a pallbearer to those who had no one to carry them into church for their funeral. The elderly looked forward to his visits as well as the young children whom he visited through school sponsored events. His service to others was maximized as he answered the call to be a Eucharistic Minister.
As an honor student, Kevin was accepted as an early admission candidate to the University of Notre Dame as well as several other universities. He has always dreamed of attending Notre Dame, a school he loves and plans on taking by storm when he arrives there as a student. If attending Notre Dame this fall is put on hold, Kevin knows his family and friends are supporting him through every step.
Kevin's dad, Tom, currently teaching at St. Ignatius High School, has touched numerous young men's lives throughout his 26 years at St. Ignatius. As the news of Kevin's journey spreads throughout the community, it can be heard again and again, "Mr. Healey's son! He was my favorite teacher!"
Kevin's mother, Ann, is a Kindergarten teacher at St. Bernadette School in Westlake. She, too, has placed a beautiful imprint on the little children getting them off to a good start. His sister Mary Kate is a 6th grade student at St. Angela Merici School in Fairview Park. He also has a special friend which is his chocolate lab, Murphy. Murphy cannot understand that he can no longer jump up on the bed to lie with Kevin; but, neverless, he is never far from Kevin's bedside.
Every challenge Kevin met in life thus far, he faced with family and friends at his side for his family and friends love him with all their hearts. So many people whose lives have been touched by the Healey's are pulling for him. Kevin thanks everyone for the support, and above all, the prayers offered for him and his family as they face this challenge together with God at their side.
If you would like to make a donation to help Kevin and his family please click on the following link:
http://www.kevinhealey.com/index.php?itemid=15
Or if you prefer, you can mail your donation to:
Wachovia Securities
25 Main Street
Westlake, OH 44145
Attn: John Lee
(Checks payable to: Tom & Ann Healey)
Comments
Apr 25, 2007, 07:14:40 lauren weaver wrote:
You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You must do the thing you think you cannot do.....a strong, positive mental attitude will create more miracles than any wonder drug!
May 13, 2007, 10:43:49 Marian Flanigan wrote:
Kevin, you do not know me, but my family is praying for you through info we received from The Littlest Heros. My husband is a 7-year cancer survivor (liposarcoma) and my 5 yr old great-niece is a brain cancer survivor so we know you will beat this cancer as they have! Stay positive....my husband says his battle was 10% medicine and 90% attitude. God Bless! Sincerely, The Flanigans
May 14, 2007, 09:24:39 Kozich Family wrote:
Dear Healey Family,
We continue to keep you in our thoughts and prayers daily.
The Kozich Family
May 14, 2007, 10:34:35 bridget guarente wrote:
Hi Kevin:
Jimmy and I are on your website and reading all about your story and Jimmy was quite impressed about the 38,000+ hits!!! Hang in there kiddo. It's rough and the worst is behind you, thanks be to God. Lots of people are praying for you and your family right now. You know, as much as this all the worst nightmare a person could have....at the same time I don't think you could have anything better happen to you than to have God work through your life and touch so many lives. Peace and love to you!
love, The Guarente fam
May 20, 2007, 14:57:28 Sue Bishop wrote:
Dear Healey Family,
We continue to keep you in our prayers and pray for a wonderful news when the oncology reports come in. Stay strong - anything is possible with prayers and you all have all of ours.
The Bishop Family
May 30, 2007, 15:20:40 Danika Young wrote:
Dear Kevin,
I'm a student in Nebraska praying for you and your family. What an amazing attitude you have! Keep pushing on... God'll never leave your side.
"Jesus said, 'In this world you will have trouble, but be brave! I have defeated the world!'" John 16:33 b
"We are pressed on every side by troubles, but we are not crushed & broken. We are perplexed, but we don't give up and quit. We are hunted down, but God NEVER abandons us." 2 Corinthians 4:8-9
Keep at it Kevin! With God on your side nothing's impossible!
Danika Young
Jun 05, 2007, 09:29:47 Pete & Shirley (Madden) Fronizer wrote:
Dear Kevin and Family,
I am adding your name to our "Book of
the Sick" at our parish in Sarasota,FL.
You will be remembered in the petitions
at Mass everyday...Our parish is
St. Thomas More.
We are former Clevelanders and
my brother graduated from St.Ignatius
in 1946. May God grant you all peace.
Jul 14, 2007, 22:56:42 Gabe Rossi wrote:
Hey Kevin, its Gabe Rossi. I know we never really had many classes together and we were never really close, but i still want to let you know that you have touched my life through your constant battle and your will to keep fighting. You give everyone who has heard your story inspiration and hope to keep fighting and to never take anything for granted.
I believe the only class we had together was freshman year theology with your dad as our teacher. I remember many of the things he taught us, but especially a few things very relevant. He told us about how we would find friends that will last a life time at Ignatius, and how we will see first hand how strong a sense of community can go. I believe this is true in both cases, especially for you, as I see the community, with special recognition to your best friends, work as hard as they can to continue to support you in your fight, and how the Ignatius community has come together for you and your family with support financially and spiritually. You have changed my life forever probably without you ever knowing it.
I apologize for not being able to make it to your party tonight, i hope you had the time of your life. Best of luck with your battle. If you need anything please let me know. I will continue to pray to John Paul the Great for you and your family. God Bless You.
Jul 20, 2007, 13:12:56 Jackie, Gary and Alex Kozich wrote:
Dear Healey Family,
We were not able to join in the celebration party for Kevin because we were on vacation. While on vacation in Boston and New York we attended mass at the Cathedral of the Holy Cross and visited St. Patrick's Cathedral. We prayed for Kevin in each cathedral. We would like Mr. Healey to know that the project Alex did for his class freshman year helped us with information for our visists of both cathedrals. We will continue to pray for all of you.
Jackie, Gary and Alex Kozich
Jul 20, 2007, 21:54:17 Kathy Prosser wrote:
Kevin and family,
My son Bennett was fortunate to be in your dad's frosh Theo. class last year; Bennett's dad Pat knows your dad from way back at Iggy. This website can be counted on to bring me to tears/smiles all at once. Keep feeding off of the love and support of family/friends; it's what defines us as Christians and human beings. Set your sites on "Touchdown Jesus" at ND and don't look back! And tell Mary Kate to keep on dancin' those reels and jigs! We are thinking of you all.........
Jul 22, 2007, 20:53:29 Tim Shannon wrote:
Kevin,
I graduated from ND with your dad in 1981, but did not know him. He may have seen me behind the bar at Corby's or Bridget McGuire's, as I worked at both. Cancer will touch everyone's lives in differennt ways, as it has mine and my family. My 14 year old son, Kevin (great name) has a friend who was recently diagnosed with the same cancer as you. His name is Dante Delsignore, and he lives here in Youngstown. Maybe at some point you guys could connect to offer each other support.
I see cancer patients in every corner of this country, from Sloan Kettering to MD Anderson, to rural oncology practices in Louisiana. I am the Director of the Oncology Division at ICU Medical, a medical device manufacturer in San Clemente, CA. I feel that in some small way that I am making an impact on others lives. I will be spending more time in the near future at Taussig in Cleveland, as we are working with them on a clinical study of our new technology. Maybe we'll run into each other some day!
May Christ be your Light,
Tim Shannon '81
Youngstown, Ohio
Aug 12, 2007, 17:41:15 Tina wrote:
Hi Kevin, my name is Tina DelSignore. My brother is Dante DelSignore who was mentioned by Tim Shannon in the previous message. Dante was diagnosed in April with osteosarcoma in his left proximial tibia. He is having a limb-salvage surgery in a week. At the moment, Dante has so much support from our community, but has yet to talk with someone who has or is going through osteosarcoma. His website is http://www.caringbridge.org... I know he would love to hear from you and maybe you guys can swap personal emails and talk about your experiences. I will keep you in my prayers.
Aug 13, 2007, 17:39:21 Monica Durkin wrote:
Dear Kevin,
I know you dont know me, however my daughter too is classmates with Dante Delsignore. As i read your history I cant help but be overwhelmed with emotion because the two of you sound soooo similar. The most amazing thing is your commitment to God and family.
Dante is the kind of kid who just wants to make YOU smile. He melted my heart the first time I met him. He had such an awesome seventh grade football year last year. I swear, every touchdown was made by Dante. He would no sooner get the ball and run for an 87 yard td. Amazing!! I know he is looking forward to playing for Cardinal Mooney. He also too has the support of his community behind him too. A group of kids got together and are having a "Mile of Hope Walk" August 18th. I will also keep you in my prayers and hope that you arrive at ND on time. We too are wild about the Irish. May God grant you with peace and strength during this journey in your life. Hope you can talk to Dante soon.!! Love and Prayers
The Durkin Family
Sep 27, 2007, 12:55:25 Marilena Docy wrote:
Dear Kevin,
You and your family are in my prayers.
God Bless You.
Marilena Docy
Oct 25, 2007, 20:00:46 NAOMI wrote:
May God be with you and your family and we exstend our prayers from our family to yours.We know that you will be blessed with strength to get through your struggle.lots of love and prayers .
Nov 07, 2007, 12:17:05 Melissa Kovach wrote:
Dear Kevin,
Praying for your continued healing and praising God for how far you've come. Your story is a testimony your faith. Keep on fighting the good fight!
With love and prayers from Texas,
Melissa (Skoda) Kovach
Grade/High-school friend of your Mom
Please say hello to your folks and I will keep you lifted up in prayer down here in the South.
Nov 27, 2007, 14:00:29 Ali and Bill Walters wrote:
Kevin and Family. . .
Such wonderful news. Our son Lucas was your roommate in April at the Clinic. It was his first chemo treatment and your mother gave us peace and hope---more than she may know. A friend of mine knows your neighbor and mentioned this site in passing one day---not by chance, but by God I believe---she did not know that you and Lucas' paths had crossed for a few days. We will continue to hold you and your family up in prayer. Lucas is doing well---the scans have been clear, bloodwork looks good. Again, cheers from us! Ali and Bill Walters
Jan 02, 2008, 13:04:27 Jacci Horvath wrote:
Hey Kevin,
I'm a student at Cardinal Mooney High School and i just found your website. One of my best friends, Dante DelSignore, was diagnosed with the same cancer. You guys sound so much alike, it's crazy. I'm happy to see that you're doing better though. Good luck at Notre Dame, what a wonderful oppurtunity for you! That's my dream college. I wanted to let you know that I'm still praying for you Kevin! Stay Strong.
Love, Jacci Horvath
Jan 14, 2008, 10:52:15 Deacon Bob Lester wrote:
Kevin:
You and your family are in my wife's prayers and mine. Also, I will put your name in the St. Joseph Strongsville prayer list in our bulletin. This way the entire community of St. Joseph Church will pray for you. May God Bless you, and comfort you as you battle this disease. Keep the faith, prayer is a powerful tool during your healing process.
Peace
Deacon Bob Lester
St. Joseph Church
Strongsville, Ohio
Jan 14, 2008, 22:22:07 linda odonnell wrote:
Kevin, I will continue to pray for you, God Bless. My sister-n-law will be requesting a special blessing for you as she visits the Vatican next month. You will remain in my prayers and thoughts. Linda O'Donnell/Kevin's mom
Jan 17, 2008, 23:50:14 Margie Sutton wrote:
Hi Kevin,
I have kept you in my prayers since I first heard of your medical condition. I was hoping through the intercession of Pope John Paul II, you would have been given more positive news. I will continue to pray, but maybe a miracle cure will happen through another one of our Lord's most venerable servants, Fr.Stanislaus Papczynski. He has been known to arouse such great zeal for accomplishing corporal and spiritual deeds of mercy under the patronage of the Immaculate Virgin Mary.
I will be in a choir which will have an audience with Pope Benedict XVI next month. We will be announced during the English speaking part of the program and sing for the Pope! I will certainly offer all these blessings for you and your family.
Sincerely,
Margie Sutton(Kevin O'Donnell is my nephew)
Orange County, Ca.
Jan 19, 2008, 13:06:32 Paulina Rudmann and family wrote:
Warmest greetings to you, Kevin, and to your family!
My family and I are now on board as official memers of your "supportive-team". You are in our every thought and prayer. Our many little discomforts that we encounter throughout the days we offer up for you. I forwarded your latest web-updates to my son, Andrew, and will let him know about this site as a means of communicating with you.
All the great Saints and Bible heros share one thing in common: they all trusted God. They believed that He has a perfect plan. Also, they were humble enough to know that His plan is beyond their meager human understanding. You, too, are being called to trust with great faith where you do not understand. In this way, St. Augustine says, you will be rewarded with understanding.
We have great hope in our hearts for you, Kevin.
May God bless you with peace.
Mrs. Paulina Rudmann and family
(Andrew Rudmann's ('07-Ignatius)mom]
Feb 19, 2008, 02:49:17 Bomber Spayde wrote:
Hello Kevin,
My name is Bomber Spayde, and I found your site through my uncle whose son goes to your high school. I was diagnosed with an acute form of leukemia (AML) at the age of 38, 3 years ago, and was given little chance of survival. With a wife and two little girls that was not an acceptable prognosis. I endured two bone marrow transplants within 40 days of each other in 2005, and I am now completly clean with no sign of cancer, although there were many setbacks and challenges to overcome. If you would like, I would be more than happy to chat with you about the challenges that you have been facing. I believe in prayer, and have seen proof first hand that God does provide healing. You will be in my prayers.
Feb 19, 2008, 20:38:29 Mary Kay Malone wrote:
Hi Kevin,
Got your web site from Matt's Caring Bridge site
My 2 sons went to Ignatius 2000 and 2003.
I just wanted to let you know you will be in my prayers along with Matt Spencer and Seamus O'Connor for quick and complete recoveries.
Mar 23, 2008, 16:26:20 Kevin Healey (Nova Scotia) wrote:
Hi Kevin,
Glad to see everything is going as planned. Hope you had a blast in Florida!
May 05, 2008, 21:17:14 Tim Coughlin wrote:
Kevin,
All of us are praying for you and we will always be. We all wish you luck at school and hope St. Ignatius will guide to be a soldier for Christ.
May 15, 2008, 03:23:56 Kevin Kruss wrote:
Dear Kevin and his family,
I came across this site as a "myspace" bulletin asking me to type my name into google and see what comes up. While I have never been a religous person my thoughts and best wishes go out to you kevin and your family. I cant begin to understand the feelings and emotions you are going through I want to wish you Kevin all the best and hope for everything to go well. while I do not know you or your family I can say that no one deserves to go through what you are and the fact that your still fighting shows how strong of a person/believer you are and I hope and wish nothing but the best and a speedy recovery for you.
May 15, 2008, 13:39:58 Mascia wrote:
To The Healeys
Countless blessings to you during this difficult time, we are only full of hope for you.
The Mascia Family
May 26, 2008, 14:17:42 Barbara Einfalt wrote:
Dear Kevin and family: Kevin, you know all things are possible with God! He is the Alpha and Omega! Jehovah Rapha (the healer) - I work at a crisis pregnancy center in Lorain and R.R., Cornerstone Among Women. We will be praying for you and your family. My son Lewis had your Dad as a teacher. Lewis and our family will be praying for you and yours. In Jesus - John 10:10 May you have life and have it more abundantly - The Einfalts.
Jun 05, 2008, 23:06:22 Gretchen Heil wrote:
Kevin,
Although we are strangers, I've heard of your battle from other caring members of the Cleveland west-side Catholic community. You are a true inspiration in your faith, character and steadfast determination to beat this illness and continue with your life plans. May God, through the Holy Spirit, bring you and your family, hope, courage and peace. I will continue to pray for you and your family. Keep up your FIGHTING IRISH spirit!
Gretchen Heil--St. Chris/Magnificat graduate
Jun 06, 2008, 09:32:46 Pat & Betty Jane McGreal wrote:
Healey Family,
You are all in our daily prayers. Like you, we too believe in miracles.
Jun 07, 2008, 14:38:42 Mary Evangelista-Einfalt wrote:
Kevin,
I came across your story by chance, after noticing my Mother's posting. I am from Ohio but now live in San Francisco. I just want you to know I will be praying for you and will ask others out here on the West Coast to do the same.
Jun 26, 2008, 10:25:22 Barbara Einfalt wrote:
We will continute our prayers for Kevin and his family. Can someone send an update to me at beinfalt@cornerstoneamongwomen.org. Thank you very much and the healing of Jesus be upon Kevin - God bless all! Barb Einfalt (my son Lewis sent me this email).
Jul 04, 2008, 00:31:10 Latia Diat wrote:
i will pray for you kevin! you gotta keep on going. i want to meet you because u seem so inspiring. dont let this destroy your boyish smile. i went to GS and i want to show you a song that they taught us: " Sing Your Way Home, at the close of the day.
Sing your way home, drive the shadows away.
Smile every mile and wherever you go,
It will brighten your road,
It will lighten your load
If you sing your way home.
lots of love coming at you from me.=)
Aug 14, 2008, 22:23:05 Ginny wrote:
Kevin, You and your family are in my prayers everyday. My son came home from Ohio Wesleyan this winter with headaches and was diagnosed with a large bone tumor in his jaw and brain. He has had two surgeries and still has a smaller tumor left. I realize that even when things are so hard, we are in God's hands and things are evolving as they should. My constant prayers go out to your folks too. You are blessed to have such a loving family.
Aug 26, 2008, 16:25:28 John Srsen wrote:
Kevin;
You have inspired and moved the Srsen family with your courage and determination. I feel your spirit everytime I wear the teeshirt from the fundraiser. I understand that your dorm at ND is as close to the grotto as possible - may Mary be your loving gaurdian. May she look down on you and cradle you in her arms.
i can still see you in NY City with the chorus determined and loving every minute as you sand the Bibel's Ave Maria. You inspire me, Kevin. GO IRISH!!
Jan 28, 2009, 11:26:29 Jan Baird wrote:
Sometimes words don't seem like enough to encourage or help but I read this in "My Utmost of His Highest" by Oswald Chambers and thought it might help. "Jesus said, The words that I speak to you are spirit and they are life(John 6:63) Once, the bible was so many words to us--"clouds and darkness"-- then, suddenly, the words become spirit and life because Jesus re-speaks them to us when our circumstances make the words new. That is the way God speaks to us; not by visions and dreams, but by words. When a man gets to God, it is by the most simple way--words." May these words and those of others encourage you as you go through everything that you are dealing with. May God's spirit strengthen and support you in all ways all the days of your life. Sincerely, A mom with two sons.
Jan 29, 2009, 11:03:27 Reyes wrote:
For God is our rock in good times and in bad. The bond that exists through prayers is like a chain of neverending love. Faith gets stronger with time, and at times may weaken, for all these trials are for the golden steps to heaven. Kevin we are praying for you and your family. My son graduated with you in '07 he is always inquiring about your health. God Bless you. Sincerely,
Mrs. Reyes
Feb 03, 2009, 19:10:29 Laura wrote:
Kevin,
I will be praying for you and for divine guidance of your surgical team. Please know that many people, in heaven and on earth, are praying for your entire family. God Bless you all.
Feb 04, 2009, 23:48:46 SV wrote:
Kevin, I don't know you, but was sent here by a friend. I will pray for you and will tell others to do the same.
Feb 05, 2009, 11:24:16 Chuck & Jane Jewell wrote:
Kevin and Family,
I came across this Scripture this morning and thought immediately of you all:
"And the God of all grace, who called you to His eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will Himself restore you and make you strong, firm and steadfast. To Him be the power for ever and ever. Amen. 1Peter 5:10"
God's promises are true and He is faithful. Hang on. We're keeping our prayers going up for you all.
Feb 17, 2009, 18:10:14 Brianne Ubinger. wrote:
Kevin,
I haven't seen you in a few years. you were in a wheelchair and we were all at Margie's house.
I hope you know that my dad and I are thinking of you all the time, and I've been praying for you every night for as long as I can remember.
stay strong!
Mar 10, 2009, 15:58:41 Jenny Cundiff wrote:
Hello,
I heard about Kevin and your family from Vicki Radican. We live in Huron, Ohio. She asked that we pray for all of you. We do hold you all in our prayers. God bless you.
Mar 12, 2009, 12:30:40 Amy D-Amico wrote:
Dear Kevin,
Although, we have never had the privilege of meeting you, you are truly an inspiration. Your Faith and strength are incredible.
We just wanted you to know that we are praying for you and your family.
I just love this Psalm from the Bible and would like to share a little inspiration with you also.
Psalm 46
God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble.
Therefore we will not fear, though the earth give way and the mountains fall into the heart of the sea, though its waters roar and foam, and the mountains quake with their surging.
There is a river whose streams make glad the city of God, the holy place where the Most High Dwells.
God is within her, she will not fall;
God will help her at break of day.
Nations are in uproar, kingdoms fall; he lifts his voice, the earths melt.
The Lord Almighty is with us;
The God of Jacob is our Fortess.
Come and see the works of the Lord, the desolations he has brought on earth; he breaks the bow and shatters the spear, he burns the shield with fire.
"Be still and know that I am God;
I will be exalted among the nations,
I will be exalted among the earth."
The Lord Almighty is with us; the God of Jacob is our fortress.
Peace and Love to you and your family.
The D'Amico Family
St. Ignatius
Mar 13, 2009, 17:49:44 Linda Van Horn wrote:
Dear Kevin
Eighteen years ago we witnessed a healing miracle for our son Kent for whom no cure could be found for terminal stages of nephrotic syndrome, a rare kidney disease. After intense prayer and relinquishing him body and soul to Jesus's care, he literally "peed off" 14 pounds of fluid that had accumulated in his little 6 month old body. The wonderful pediatric nephrologist declared there was no medical explanation for this occurrence.
We thank God everyday for sparing his life. We will be praying that your parents are likewise blessed....and know you will be a living example of God's mercy and grace.
Faithfully,
The Van Horn family
Mar 22, 2009, 01:54:11 Kate Kasunic wrote:
Kevin-
This past fall I joined an organization at Mount Union called Alpha Phi Omega. We are based on the principles of leadership, friendship and service. It has become an important aspect of my life because Jesus taught us to be friends to all and serve others.
I know it's been some time since our days at St. Angela's and what I wouldn't do to have them back... APO has helped me remember to be a friend always to people that enter and exit your life. I guess, I'm trying to say, even though we're not at St. Angela's any more, I'm still your friend, and I'm always praying for you and thinkin about you.
Stay strong Kevin!
Mar 23, 2009, 08:48:25 Annie, Ellen, Morgan wrote:
Dear Kevin,
We hope all is well. We have been praying for you and your family every week in our religion class. We hope you enjoyed the cards we made for you. We are inspired by your story and hope to hear that you get well soon.
God Bless,
Morgan,Ellen, and Annie
From the religion class of Ruffing Montessori
Mar 25, 2009, 19:18:08 Jacob Sheehan wrote:
Kevin,
I'm a freshman at Ignatius. Unfortunately, you're a little old for me to have met you. Although most of us dont know you that well, we all pray for you before every single class. Even though you probably already know it, you have brought the church community together to pray for you. In doing so, you have greatly strengthened it. We will always have hope. Never let hope part from you. I had to do a report on the meaning of Jeremiah, chapter one, for theology (mr baron). It reminded me that no matter what happens to us, God will be there for you, even if you feel dispair. Remember that Jesus, God Himself, died for you and me and that he loves you. Rejoice because of this, and let nothing else bother or affect you. In the words of mr baron, peace and love!
Mar 25, 2009, 21:03:32 Sue Kirchner wrote:
Dear Kevin and family,
My heart goes out to you! My son, Jake, is a freshman at St. Ignatius and my other son, Bob, will be a freshman next year. I am currently doing the SPA 10-week retreat with Fr. Lewis and learned about you through petitions we say for you each Tuesday morning. I have been praying for you and your family ever since. I lit a candle for you today in St. Mary's Chapel. Cancer has touched my family, taking two sisters-in-law (breast) and my father-in-law (colon). I am actively involved with Relay for Life in Brunswick, Ohio. You are so strong and such an inspiration to me that I had to write to you. If you would offer some advice to help me to convince my 46 year-old husband to get a colonoscopy, I would be so grateful. I will pray the Novena Prayer for the Canonization of Pope John Paul II as requested by your dad. I did a Lenten Reflection this evening at my parish, St. Ambrose, and wanted to close with this phrase from the first chapter of the Gospel of John, "Behold, the Lamb of God."
May God bless you and your family abundantly, Sue Kirchner
Mar 30, 2009, 20:15:40 Shane G wrote:
Kevin we have never met but I am a student from St. Albert the Great in Ohio and a future Wildcat. Keep fighting and we will keep praying as a school. God Bless and Get well!!
Apr 01, 2009, 11:00:12 colleen and marty mccafferty wrote:
Kevin,
You do not know us but we pray for you everyday. Our daughter Mary Gen had your mother for 1/2 of Kindergarten the year you were diagnosed. Our son Connor had your father this year for Theology and our two other boys attend St.B. We are encouraged to hear that you are back at Notre Dame and hope that you are able to finish the year without further complications. Keep up the fight. We will continue to keep you and your family in our prayers.
Apr 01, 2009, 18:30:21 Mary Therese Slota wrote:
Tom, Ann, Kevin and Katie,
Please know that we hold your family in prayer each day. We put you on the Prayer List at our parish, St. Procop. The young children that I work with Holy Name Elementary also pray for you.
May God's love continue to surround you.
Mary Therese and Wayne Slota
Apr 03, 2009, 07:12:51 Tammy Larsen wrote:
Ann, Tom, Kevin and Katie,
There is not a day that goes by that we don't think of you Kevin and all you and your family have been through. You remain in our hearts and prayers each day. We pray that God will ease the burden and suffering and bless you with a devine miracle. We are pulling for you and continue to be in awe of you and your family's love and support for each other, faith, strength and courage. You inspire us all, thank you and God bless.
Love, The Larsen Family
Apr 05, 2009, 14:52:12 Patti Boehm wrote:
Kevin,
We continue to hold you and your family in our prayers. Enjoy your time at home over Easter and best of luck the rest of the school year.
The Boehm Family
Apr 06, 2009, 21:43:09 Thomas Anthony wrote:
Dear Healey Family-
Your faith in God's will in your life is an inspiration to me and my entire family.
We have been struggling with the current economic situation and your faith in God has inspired me to understand better that God has a special plan for all of us.
I am a friend of a friend who has been led to your website for the strength that you provide with your Faith.
I will be praying for Kevin and for your continued strength this week.
Tom
Apr 07, 2009, 20:19:42 debbie clarke wrote:
Healey Family,
How interesting that your current update should happen to occur on my brother Bob's 2nd birthday in heaven. He was born April 6,1963 and joined God on March 4,2008. The last few months as I have followed your journey, I have been having a terrible time coping with the loss of my dear brother-instead of time healing, I feel like I've been in a time warp. I am trying to feed off your courage, hope for the future & incredible faith. This is not easy for me, as I feel somewhat betrayed by the priest at my own parish for his reprehensible behavior toward my family when my brother was in need of last rites. I have been praying to forgive him for over a year,but it's very hard because I can't justify what he did & I feel hurt on behalf of my brother as well. Your incredible faith is the only thing that has kept me hanging on to mine & not deserting Catholicism or the parish, as many from our parish have due to this priest. I know he is only human,but I made the mistake of holding him to a higher standard because I thought he was supposed to have taken a vow to represent God & the church. Your family has touched my heart in a way I cannot describe and as with all things, I believe God brings people into our lives for a purpose. I will continue to hold you all close in prayer, especially as we approach Good Friday- I pray that the scans will show the power of prayer,when it is God's will,
and that Kevin will show improvement.
You have all shown such overwhelming love & courage & I have felt it in my heart and been inspired . God Bless you all .
Sincerely,
Debbie Clarke
Apr 08, 2009, 08:09:36 Sue Beres wrote:
Healey Family,
I will continue to say a rosary for your family everyday as I have for the past two years. Coincidentally each decade is marked with the face of Pope John Paul II. May he continue you to give you all his love, strength and courage.
Sincerely,
Sue & Tom Beres
Apr 10, 2009, 22:55:10 Charles Cartier wrote:
Hey Kevin,
It's strange sometimes how people interact with each other. We didn't get to talk much at Ignatius. You might not even remember that we were in band together, but we did meet and talk a few times. I can't remember what it was about, but that was enough. It has changed the way I think, and if you have brought some change in me, so I can only imagine the influence your presence has brought upon people who have been able to spend more time with you. I believe that God is revealed through the actions of people who do His work, so I believe you have brought God to those around you. I hope you can find some comfort in this image, that those you have touched through your presence have seen an image of God.
Please accept my prayers.
Sincerely,
-Charles
Apr 11, 2009, 17:10:39 Lisa Allen wrote:
Dear Healey Family,
We met you Kevin at the tender age of 6...you were an inspiration to me then and even a bigger inspiration to so many that know you and so many who have not even met you! You and your family's trust in God and faith in God has taught me a valuable and past due lesson. God has a plan for us all and he can get us through any hardships we face. You are a beautiful young man and know our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this very difficult time.
Love,
Lisa Allen
Apr 12, 2009, 09:29:39 Mark Hackel wrote:
Dear Healeys,
I learned of Kevin's story through his Aunt Julie, whom I work with here in Michigan. It has touched me in so many ways. As a parent, I truly feel the heartbreak that Ann and Tom are going through. Parents aren't supposed to outlive their children.
As a veterinarian who treats cancer, I have followed with clinical interest and the knowing of medical realities.
As someone who lost their mother to cancer years ago, I have the memories of her battles, rallies, and ultimate loss. I also remember, though, how she found comfort in Jesus in that last year.
As the husband to a hospice nurse, I know how important it is to have the whole family understand what is happening and have them supported as much as the patient.
As a friend and coworker of your Aunt Julie, I know how much she loves you and doesn't want to see you in pain.
And, finally, as someone who will most likely never meet you face to face, but will be forever changed by your story. I have recently come to realize that there are Angels among us. God puts them here to teach us. For some, their mission is long. For others, their mission may be short, but their lessons are not any less valuable. And, when their mission is done, God will call them back.
Kevin, may the blessings of this Easter come to you in full in thanks for the example of a life well-lived.
Apr 12, 2009, 19:06:41 Iya Dombrovskaya wrote:
Hey there Kevin-
just remember to stay strong and know that you are not alone.
Whatever happens, you are an unforgettable person for all that you've shown the people around you.
You don't know who I am, but I came upon your story on facebook, and I was so amazed.
Will keep you in prayers,
Iya
Apr 12, 2009, 20:34:49 Mary Pokrywka wrote:
Kevin and Family,
Everyday I and my son Richie pray for you and for the amazing strength you and your family have. I have never met anyone so strong and with such courage. You are an inspiration to everyone who has ever met you or as read about you. I am honored to be one who has gotten to know you and your mother. I pray that I too can be as strong and you and your family. We will continue to pray for you all!
Apr 12, 2009, 22:34:58 Nikki J. wrote:
Kevin,
You don't know me, but I grew up in Avon Lake, OH. I'm now down at the Univ. of Kentucky and heard about you on Facebook (big surprise, haha). I just wanted to send some words of encouragement, to hold onto your faith. I admire your commitment to our Lord, and I pray that He brings you strength and peace. Know that people down here in Kentucky are praying for you.
Love in Christ,
Apr 13, 2009, 00:17:46 Robert wrote:
Kevin, you have feelings from New Orleans! Best of luck! Remember, the life of the flesh is only the tiny bead at the end of a long string of life! God bless!
Apr 13, 2009, 00:25:38 Elizabeth wrote:
Hey, I don't know you or your family but I heard of your story and I live on the west coast...you have reached people all over the world, i'll be praying for a miracle, but whatever happens know that in your 20 years here you touched and impacted most people than most do in 100 years...you and your family seem to be amazingly strong people, keep the faith man, my heart goes out to you.
God Bless
Apr 13, 2009, 13:31:16 Monika wrote:
Dear Kevin,
My heart breaks for you and your family. I cannot even imagine the pain and suffering that you have been through and I truly admire your strength and will to continue through this challenge that God has presented to you.
Although I have never personally had to face cancer, I have experienced the loss of my father who also had cancer.
Your courage amazes me. I look up to you and continually pray for you and your family.
Stay strong. Continue to have faith and trust in God's plan. You are an inspiration to all who hear your story. You have had such a profound effect on those who know you and as well as those who have only had the privledge of hearing your story.
You are an incredible person.
I hope that you truly know how much everyone loves you and believes in you. I hope that you are proud of all the many great things you have achieved throughout your life and continue to achieve during this trial.
In the whatever time you have left, I hope that you have a great sense of peace and that your pain disappears. Most importantly I hope that you feel victory and not defeat. For you are most definitely a champion. One of whom we all aspire to be.
Keep on Keeping on.
God Bless
Apr 13, 2009, 14:22:03 Marianne wrote:
Happy Birthday Kevin! I know this time is very difficult for you and your family but take comfort in knowing that you are in the prayers of many, many, many people... many of which you don't know. God is right there with you during this time. You and your family are truly an inspiration of strength and faith for all.
Apr 13, 2009, 16:24:57 Maryann Fioritto wrote:
Happy Birthday to you Kevin. My late father Ray Koch attended St Ignatius and was very involved and loved the school. I read about you from a post from Dan Bradesca on facebook. Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. And you are in the prayers of those in heaven.
Keep being strong and hold onto your faith.
Maryann Fioritto
Apr 13, 2009, 20:01:04 Colleen wrote:
Happy birthday Kevin. I have never met you, but learned about your story through friends. I just wanted to let you know that ND is praying for you!
Apr 13, 2009, 21:47:38 Rachel wrote:
Happy birthday Kevin. I'm keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Apr 14, 2009, 16:12:37 Julie Baker wrote:
Kevin, I am new to the St. Ignatius community this year as a counselor. While I don't know you or your family very well, I know of your courage and your faith. You are in my prayers everyday....along with your parents and sister. My wish is that you find peace today and always. Happy Belated Birthday.
Apr 14, 2009, 23:06:55 Shane Wendling wrote:
Hey Kevin it's Shane Wendling from St. A man. Haven't talked to you in a while I hope your on the positive side bro. Hang in there man.
Apr 18, 2009, 20:00:05 McGervey-s wrote:
Kevin, I don't know you personally but have heard a lot of awesome things about you through the website, people at school, and so on. My brother is currently at Ignatius and had your dad as a theo teacher so I heard about you through my brother as well. I am thinking of you and praying for you. God knows waht he is doing, but you probably already know that. Anyway, you will continue to be in my prayers and the prayers of my family. May God Bless you and keep you.
The McGervey Family
Apr 20, 2009, 15:46:11 Bob Cunningham wrote:
Kevin, Tom, and Ann.
I too, am praying for all of you. I learned about Kevin today from the editors column in the ND Observer. John Tierney wrote a very nice column about Kevin's fight with cancer and how we can help with prayers. My wife beat breast cancer two years ago. We know all about the power of hope and the power of prayer. Father Hesburgh told me his favorite prayer is "Holy Spirit come to me". May the Holy Spirit fill you with divine strength to win this battle and see God's blessings however they may come.
Apr 20, 2009, 16:16:04 Jacqueline wrote:
I will continue to pray for you all, and now the troubled souls as well. My thoughts and prayers are with you always.
Apr 22, 2009, 22:15:32 Kristi wrote:
I will pray for you all. God will take care of you.
Apr 23, 2009, 19:35:36 jean wrote:
God bless and keep the Healey family in the palm of his hand.
Apr 23, 2009, 21:43:55 Jayne Kacik wrote:
We pray for you everyday at St. Mark. Know that my prayers are with all the Healey's. My heart goes out to you.
Apr 24, 2009, 13:29:32 Anton Conkle wrote:
May Kevin Rest in Peace.
A.M.D.G.
Apr 24, 2009, 19:06:52 Abbie wrote:
Kevin it is friday april 24th i just heard about you passing i hope you can hear this from heaven im sorry that this happened to you. I never was formally introduced to you butt i attended st angela when i was younger and knew of you. I am very sorry that you had to deal with cancer and treatment but hopefully now up in heaven your pain went all away 8 :) love abbie
Apr 24, 2009, 19:48:58 Michelle W. wrote:
Kevin I am sorry that your fight was long and a struggle. You are in a better place. Heaven has earned another angel. Thank you for making me strong. We will love you and remember you always
"You'll be in my heart, yes you'll be in my heart, from this day off now and forever more" -Phil Collins
Apr 27, 2009, 13:27:50 Denice Johnson wrote:
Your son, and brother, will always be with you; although you can not see him, his presence will be felt.
Apr 27, 2009, 22:46:11 Will Jenkins wrote:
Hey Kevin, I don't think you knew me, but I knew who you are. It's because of that Upperclassman thing where all the younger guys know the seniors, but not the opposite. Anyway, I was a sophomore when you were about to graduate from Ignatius. I can remember standing in line at Wendy's behind you and another senior one day, all of us oblivious to the potential of the growing problem inside your body. It's crazy how quickly a problem can arise. But it's also amazing how quickly you inspired so many people. Almost 3/4 a million hits. Thanks for the inspiration. Heaven's gotta be awesome.
Apr 27, 2009, 23:28:54 Kevin Sovacool wrote:
Hey Kevin.
We did not know each other very well, but you have been such an amazing inspiration to me and thousands of other people.It is amazing how much strength the human body has, and how much it is able to fight off. You have no completed the fight, and I believe that you have also prevailed. You are now with God watching over us; most likely with a the big smile on your face that so many people know and love. Thank you, Kevin for teach each and every one of the people who knew you so much, even if you didn't realize you were doing so.
Rest in Peace.
Everyone from the Ignatius community is thinking of you, missing you, and praying for you and your family.
Apr 28, 2009, 07:53:52 Monica wrote:
Rest in Peace Kevin. We do not know one another...but perhaps we passed one another on the Notre Dame campus during your freshman year (I was a senior then). You sound like you were an amazing young man and I am sure that God has welcomed you into his loving embrace. My heart and prayers are with you and your family.
Apr 28, 2009, 20:37:23 The Rhein Family (Cameron) SIHS 2008 wrote:
To the Healey Family - Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. Kevin was a blessing to all of us. I have always loved this poem and I thought I would share it with everyone.
Take Time
We knew the time was coming friends
when God would take me home,
So dry your tears and smile with me
for you'll never be alone.
I haven't much to leave with you
as far as earthly goods.
Instead I'd like to leave you all
some very special words.
Take time to pick a flower and
give it to a friend.
Take time to watch each day begin
and time to watch it end.
Take time to watch the lovely birds
and listen to them sing.
Take time to watch the earth awake
each and every spring.
Take time to be a giver
in this world of push and shove.
Take time to hold a child
and take time to teach him love.
Take time to help the lonely
through a moment of despair.
Smile at a stranger
take time to show you care.
So go on "my friend" and waste no days
You only have a while.
Make your life a happy one
for I love to see you smile.
So cry for me no more my friend
I'm with my father dear.
And until the day He takes your hand
I'll be waiting for you here.
May God hold Kevin in his arms, while we hold him in our hearts.
Apr 28, 2009, 21:17:35 Sharon Francz wrote:
God Bless the Healey family. You have strengthened our community through your fight and your faith. I am a mother with two young boys in the St. Bernadette Parish and your struggle will stay with me as I continue to raise my sons, praying that they will come to know the Lord as you have...
Apr 30, 2009, 04:13:25 David Steiger SIHS -73 wrote:
Kevin,
It is 4 am on Thursday and I can't sleep thinking about you and your family. Oh, how beautifully you, your mom and dad, and your sister have turned tragedy into triumph. You have shown thousands the power of faith in the Lord. You have united thousands of friends and strangers as they pray for you and your family and in so doing you have turned the hearts of thousands of people everyday towards heaven where you now are at peace with the Lord. That is a beautiful ministry. Thank you. May God bless you and your family.
May 01, 2009, 16:17:37 Lisa Allen wrote:
HI Ann and Tom,
I find myself still checking this website. Before, although it brought sadness to my heart, I still felt a sense of peace that came from your beautiful insight. I think I am still hoping to hear more insight and I do from the comments people write and also from your posts. I am not able to be there this Sunday, but we will be thinking of you all. Good luck. You continue to touch my life and I thank you all for that. God Bless you Kevin, I think of you often too and I know I will always have your memory in my heart.
Love, Lisa Allen
May 02, 2009, 00:45:25 Jean Nyembo wrote:
Hi Kevin,
It's 1.35 in the morning. I just received a message announcing a memorial mass for you on Sunday, May 3. As I visit this site and read a little bit about you, your life and struggle, I feel so much connected to you and feel strengthened by your faith. I wanted to share this beautiful prayer with you and your loved ones. As you are with the Lord, pray for us in our earthly journeys.
Soul of Christ, sanctify me
Body of Christ, save me
Blood of Christ, inebriate me
Water from Christ's side, wash me
Passion of Christ, strengthen me
O good Jesus, hear me
Within Thy wounds hide me
Suffer me not to be separated from Thee
From the malicious enemy defend me
In the hour of my death call me
And bid me come unto Thee
That I may praise Thee with Thy saints
and with Thy angels
Forever and ever
Amen
Peace to you,
Jean NN.
May 04, 2009, 15:40:08 RM wrote:
Tom, Ann, and Mary Kate -
You don't know me, but I attend Mass every week at either St. Angela's or St. Bernadette's. I have heard Kevin's name every week in Mass and always wondered who he was and what was wrong. A friend at work told me about Kevin and sent me the link to this site…and I have been on this site daily. I have since told my parents, all of my siblings, all of my nieces/nephews, etc. We are all addicted to your family!
I don't think I can express my feelings of inspiration. I, being one of 8 children, come from a very strong Catholic family, but can't even tell you how much your family has brought me even closer to my Faith. I thought I was strong before, but you have brought me to a complete different level of my Faith and my relationship with Christ! It sounds crazy, but I feel like a new person…all because of how awesome your family is!!!!
How lucky are we to be Catholic?! Your son is in Heaven with all of our beautiful Angels, and Saints, and our Beautiful Mother and Jesus and GOD! This is our ultimate goal, and Kevin has achieved that goal! Kids that age don't do the things Kevin did! He WAS A TRUE INSPIRATION!!! I honestly think that Kevin was put on this earth for a reason, and that reason was to get people back into their Faith. I read these entries from people, and every one of them have been inspired by your son and your family! Our Churches here in Cleveland will be packed because of you!!!!
Thank you, Thank you, Thank you!!!!! May God Bless you even more than He has! How very lucky are you to have your Faith! It takes some people their whole lives to achieve the level of Faith that Kevin and your family has in such a short period of time!
Take Care!
May 07, 2009, 19:37:16 Sarah Mervosh wrote:
Kevin,
We never met, but thank you for your inspiration. I am a student at ND and attended the memorial mass on Sunday. You were so brave and your family is being so strong. May God welcome you with open arms and help ease the grief of your loved ones here on Earth.
May 08, 2009, 17:45:04 anonymous wrote:
I am a student at Incarnate Word Academy in Parma Heights. I never met Kevin, but everyone in my school knew all about him and the wonderful person that he was. I am sure that he brought happiness and joy to all that he met. May he have peace in Heaven with our Father.
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